I'm amazed how well Michele knowns the people on this forum ;) You managed to describe it exactly....you're a very wise person, Michele =) Indeed, I tried to write some stuff twice, but I think it missed the point of what I was trying to say and that'll probably make more people upset or annoyed, and that's not what I was after anyway - or start a whole new discussion, etc :) I guess the whole idea is that when you try to be honest about how you really feel about things (not about persons, but just things in general) the last thing I care about is how this or that rule exactly was written down. But I wasn't sure how to put it and what I exactly wanted to achieve with it, so I might as well delete it :) And thanks for the concern.....that's really very nice - it's appreciated =)