Thanks Asalina, you did get me thinking about what I said and I as much as admitted I was incorrect in the comment about removing Legume's image. This is all I have been trying to achieve, to let people see I am human, admit it and move on to more constructive isssues. It is not humanly possible to be consistent with every thread or comment or image...it just can't be done by one person. I do try and deal with any problems or complaints IM'd to me. CyberStretch it seems you would like to negate my personal life out of the equation "Your personal life, IMHO, is irrelevant", but it comes along for the ride with me, as everyones experiences and perceptions go along with them in all their worldly interactions ..."perhaps working with the public is not your calling." perhaps that explains why I have been working as a nurse for the last 22 years very much with the public? It definitely could explain somewhat my perceptions of relative problems in the world. I am not trying to denigrate your issues, I am merely pointing out there ARE greater injustices & tradgedies in the world. Read 'em and weep. I have listened, considered all comments and believe me I have learnt from this particular thread. I thank Asalina for "tweeking" me a bit, it never hurts to consider your actions in the reflective light of others perceptions of them. :-)>