"why someone cannot have a mind of their own around here without being accused of some form of shrillery." Why not? We have minds of our own that just happen to dissagree with yours - and you're accusing people of being insecure? Because they don't think like your "mind of your own"? snicker Yah - does seem like he has his knickers all in a twist, poor fellow, doesn't he Kolschey? ;]

"I am a good person now and it feels... well, pretty much the same as I felt before (except that the headaches have gone away now that I'm not wearing control top pantyhose on my head anymore)"

• Monkeysmell