I'd agree no one can dictae the viewing of nudes or what have you to someone els's kids. But it's really quite simple math. Three barrels one contains milk one contains beer and one contains milk and beer seperatly and equally The chances of your kid getting beer from barrel one is 0% the chances of getting beer from the second barrl are 100% But the possibiltity and probability of getting tainted milk is much greater if you as a parent go to drink from the third barrel, even separated and filtered. It's your choice which barrel you drink from.