well I was just confused because I had not thought I had read anything in this thread about either person until now(but I could have missed something and apologize if I did)...anyway, I didn't know anything at all about their little conflict but I rarely go to the forums unless there is some issue I'm interested in...I like the galleries much better... speaking of names and pictures, well my picture is real(but it's 3 years old, guess I should shange it) but my "name" isn't and I was thinking of trying to change it since I now use a different handle in other places anyway...I didn't really change it to hide from anything, it's just that this handle was from an RPG character I had a long time ago and now I've come to prefer another name instead but all of my friends know the new name now and know it's me...I made a point of telling everybody when I changed it.. lynde...err...sorcha....err...Melissa