Dodger, I have read and reread this, and I just don't know what to say to you! I think what your doing is brave, and yet one of the scariest things someone has to do! So I simply will say I wish you the best, and that all will work out for you and your family, and God Bless you all. Sallie

Poser 9 SR3  and 8 sr3
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Processor Type:  AMD Phenom II 830 Quad-Core
2.80GHz, 4000MHz System Bus, 2MB L2 Cache + 6MB Shared L3 Cache
Hard Drive Size:  1TB
Processor - Clock Speed:  2.8 GHz
Operating System:  Windows 7 Home Premium 64-bit 
Graphics Type:  ATI Radeon HD 4200
•ATI Radeon HD 4200 integrated graphics 
System Ram:  8GB