There are 2 ways of parenting things like hair. I've expirienced the same as you, no "figure 1" to use as a parent. Now I'm not on my Poser PC so I can't tell you which of the following 2 ways actually work G But choose the opposite of the one you've been using :o) 1.: Double-click on the hair and from that box that pops up, choose "set parent" 2.: Select the hair and go to the (object?) menu and choose Set Parent. One of them works, the other doesn't. Have no idea of why.

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