I guess the reason I say that so easily, and how people like hawfyr can say I tell people to take a hike, for me, is that if there were no one but my perspective of this situation I would eventually resolve it for myself, from within the space of this forum thread. First, by taking in any and all posotive feedback. Second, by remarking on how little else there is in the way of things that mearly interest us. Then, by reveling in the openess of the space afforded me by Renderosity, whereby laying this to rest once, and for all. = )