Hmmm, toilet seats, the scourge of many a male-female relationship. There are actually devices on the market that will automatically lower the seat after five minutes; probably have saved a number of marriages...:-) Some of these replies remind me of a comment a coworker once made about Poser: "Men create renders of what they find attractive; women create renders of what they would like to be." I think I heard a little of this in the comments above.