incompitent? In what way? Hey, a teahcer can control kindergarten, yeah, but even a Prime Minister can't control his own party...... what I'm saying is, we're all grown up and we're more than a handfull......lol ;) Cyn, glad to see you're ok(ish) - that's another side to this place, the fact that we've all got lives and troubles that everyone else here never really knows about. Changes the way you look at things here if you're bummed out over other things. I know... All we can do is wish each other everything in sorting everything else out too.... ok, all in a circle, join hands..... (",)