Heart face and round face both make her softer-looking. In general, set morphs to 1 and then work your way down to 0. Most morphs don't look good at a value above 1. It's really worth your time to go down everything on the list of morphs for the head, and set each one to 1 and then to -1 to see the range you can get. Once you know what everything does you'll know what you need to add from the many available free morphs, or what you can do by combining morphs. I tend to use a heart-shape face with strong cheekbones, full lip upper & lower set to around .7, and then a stronger nose by using nose bump and so on. Other people focus more on changing the eyes, which requires add-on morphs for the most part but produces some really nice results. Mary