But the funny thing is when people talk about how smart your kids are, and they automatically assume its the mothers doing...even when she's always gone and you're the one spending the time. "Mrs. Johnson you're kids are so smart and so well behaved. However did you do it?" And let's not forget if anyone sees you discipling your children A cross word makes you the evil child-beating monster we're all supposed to be. Heaven help the man who's daughter is a figure skater learning how to jump...my daughter hasn't got to that point yet, but when I see those girls hitting the boards like hockey players without pads.. I fear those bruises. I fear every busy body in the world with an axe to grind who thinks they're doing my family a favor by reporting me for child abuse. When they have must arrest laws here on those kinds of calls. Yes I fear that. My two older sons have a much stronger opinion that would never get past the TOS.