It is meant to be a woman who was going to leave her husband, unable to go because of his father dying and him needing her too much at that moment in time for her conscience to let her leave. The cautionary "just for now" was meant to put emphasis on the fact that the tradgedy changes nothing in the long term. It is a suspension of 'hostilities' in the face of emotional disaster At least, that was what it was meant to be Looks like I missed big time on this one Thank you for trying to help Charmz & Crescent I will have a go at rethinking this one soon. Shanna :-) back to the scrawling board.