Megalodon, of course you are correct about choosing When to say something and How it is said. I am sorry if you are taking this so much to heart and I can understand your strong feelings given the circumstances of your past. It is a bad feeling being accused of something, when you are not guilty. But I do feel that Guitta has tried to exhaust all options, as Guitta also pointed out what MightyPete said, read #4. And being that Guitta is a forum moderator I feel she may have an upper hand on somethings more then we who come to the forum. She deals with this more often then we do and maybe able to see things in Posts that we do not. I have every confidence in her abilities and if you read #12, Guitta has covered her bases and I respect her for that. Sharen