I suspect you're right about that "vacation" :) On the other hand, Dad said something once that I'll never forget. He was talking about a business enterprise he had wanted to pursue, but my mother (the penny pincher in the family) convinced him it was too risky. He told me he had always wondered what would have happened if he had followed that dream :) The look in his eyes told me he regreted that he hadn't. I decided that I would never "wonder what would have happened if...." I'm now about the same age he was when he made the comment....58. No regrets here! :) BTW: your last comment certainly describes my dear mother :)