Hmmmm, well Anna-Marie, I also thank you for taking the time to speak to us...and you may not be aware of this or maybe you are, and I am going to try to be as careful as I can when wording this so not to offend anyone: Let's say this using myself as an example, if it were myself and I was conserned about this and ruining my reputation or hurting my family - I WOULD NOT DO IT.....why, because we all have to know this IS going to get out, and used by someone who WILL try to damage you or your rep. If I was a public personality, I would know this....that is why I get confused. If you are worried why would you do this? You know that there are people out there that are going to mishandle this? No disrepect intended but I want to say...DUH....I am sorry really I don't want to hurt you or what you represent but sometimes I just wonder what is in people's brains. Humbely yours....Sharen