Ang darling, yes I know, this was always a problem for me: when I was 25, people thought I was 18 and this unnerved me a lot. Now that I'm 37 and people think I'm 25, I must admit that the feeling is quite the opposite... :) IMO, you should have fun and relax to divert your thoughts from what happened: what about a vacation in Italy? Here's my plan: visit to all the wonderful cities we have here, plus sea and Alps, my big apartment in the Old Side of Milan, concerts and, why not?, cohoperative Bryce fun (I have two PCs at home)... :) S.