Hey pdxjims I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom and I hope your dad has an easy time with coming back from his illness. You are a special son taking care of all this for them, the Lord will surely shine on your lovely face and bless you. You honor your parents and I for one am proud of you. Now to address people like you, there is no such thing....people yes but that is it....hope you understand my way. I lost my dad whom I loved dearly and know that although it has to happen it is still a little empty without them physically there. We are here for you friend, if you need anything just yell, you know Mike and I will be there. I will say a prayer for you and your other half as you put it. Big Hug....Sharen