pdxjims: It's good to get an update and please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. The next time your relatives introduce you to a "corn fed pretty girl" just ask if she's willing to be a surrogate mother because you and your partner want a baby. You might want to be twirling a turkey baster in one hand as you ask. On the other hand, if Indiana girls do 'pack a mean punch', you may wish to reconsider :) Regards, -Nancy.