i hope i get this right,if not someone with more experience than me will correct me,once an item of clothing is conformed it basically stays put,you can rotate,twist,bend it etc,but not move the trans,a way around it is instead of conforming the clothing is to parent it to the figure,in the case of the neck tie,resize it and postion it where you want it,then go to set figure parent (not sure which poser version your using but in poser 5 its under Figure in the menu) and choose figure 1 neck from the list,i hope this helps :)