The problem is the complaint and debate forum. It stirs up trouble by causing issues to be aired publicly. Having issues is normal for a community this size. By airing them in public it makes people think things are much worse than they are. As result they actually become much worse as people start to read what's posted in there and then decide it must be bad here and so leave. Sometimes it better to keep some things private.

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