hey... you mean everybody but me in the complain and debate forum is SERIOUS??? well, okay, some people have posted serious things. but mostly, i just take it as a humorous group gripe session and have a ton of fun over there. depends on your point of view, i guess. :) marque: if you want to leave, it's your choice. nobody can tell you how you should feel or do feel. if you feel uncomfortable, or that things aren't right... it's up to you. you can stay and try to change things, or you can leave. stick to your principles. not that i WANT you to leave! maybe the replies here help put a new perspective on things, and you'll change your mind. that would be nice :)