When reading in the C&D forum, I just imagine myself sitting around the kitchen table or out on the back patio with friends and all of us "bitching and moaning" about the stuff that causes us minor aggravation (you know, like the old "I don't care HOW many times I yell at him, my kid STILL forgets to put the cap back on the toothpaste" kind of stuff). None of it is life threatening, earth shattering or any of that. It's just good natured complaining to let off a bit of steam and do a bit of bonding (as in "Yeah, I know what you mean, but with my kid it's drinking out of the carton instead of the toothpaste"). Kate, who thinks life is way too short to be taking stuff seriously, especially stuff on the computer.