Stick with it Rayraz :) You'll do fine as long as there's no hitting the other guy involved. Personally, I'm a girl and I don't think girls are worth fighting over(at least not fist fighting) Some one always gets hurt and then no one ends up with who they want to be with anyway because everyone is mad at each other. This girl sounds like she's being honest with you too, telling you she cares about the other guy. Be honest with her and be friends with her. You never know, things might not work out or something and you'll have more of a chance than someone she really doesn't know :) Just hang in there:) There's a right person for everyone out there I believe(well, with a few exceptions, my ex for example:P) You'll find someone really special someday :) Squeeka