I was ready to ask if I might forward this to a friend in this situation - then I read further. The end is not the one I wish to send her! Very moving. I enjoyed the flow. Also, I didn't know of an alternate meaning to fisted (see how bravely I type it out, lol) - I agree, you must let the words flow, but appreciate those who inform you of new definitions. Let it flow - let it go! May the tide bring new loves to every shore!