the word is in the dictionary. its crude, and slang, but its a part of the english language and just about everyone uses it sometimes. i see no parallel to my using the word fck to open vagina renders... however, if i had a little kid i wouldnt mind them hearing the former but i would mind them seeing the latter - theres quite a large degree of difference between the two.*

IMHO the difference between the general argument "it's natural so it's OK" and "it's in the dictionary so it's OK" is at best negligable. You're asking for intelligent, adult distinctions to be drawn on the graphic side and AFAICS one or two people have simply asked you to "do as you say" on the language side. I HAVE a little kid, and I wouldn't want him to see the image as described or hear your use of language. He gets neither on UK TV all day long. Can't we all just get along? This topic is a dead parrot. It is deceased, it has departed this mortal coil. It is an ex-parrot.