I guess I'm with some of the others in the relationship field. Really stupidest thing is I had a relationship with someone who didn't love me, wasn't available in a whole host of ways and hung on to a dead relationship way too long. Biggest lie(s) - telling him it was ok when it wasn't. I'm with derjimi. It's been nearly 3 years and I don't have a day that goes by that I don't think about him (and it's not all good; it's not all bad either tho'). Funniest stupidest thing was breaking my arm when I was 18 and on my first (and only) date with an absolutely cute guy who was 21. I was visiting my brother in Colorado Springs, went rollerskating with Tom. I hadn't skated in 5 years and stupidly decided I would be cute and do moves I'd never been able to do when I did skate. I promptly fell, broke my arm and could only lay there stupidly saying "I think I broke my arm." Poor guy---I think he was whiter than I was. He didn't have my brother's phone number and all I had with me was my military ID (Dad was a retiree). I told him to take me to "the base" thinking he knew which one my brother was stationed at but he took me to the wrong one (there's three in that area). He finally got hold of my brother, waited with them until 2:30a.m. and was absolutely sweet to me. I think I was more composed about it than he was.