I think that you have made a mistake in your post. Most of the time it is amusing to see you rant and rave. But I truely feel that you harsh critisism is totally uncalled for and you owe Sharon an apology here. You are still young but I think that its time you adopt some social skills and ediquette. There are times where your harshness is appropriate but then there are times like this when you are dealing with a kind hearted, generous (extremely generous) person when you should ask for clarification in a polite way. Of course if you cannot make a genuine apology then don't bother. If you see nothing wrong in what you have said so be it. Sincerely, Angela