I gotta say, I agree with JC on this one...very well said. I've been through those battles before, and although I was never lucky enough to get the girl in the end, it was still a worthwhile experience to go through (believe it or not) and definitely taught me some things for the future. Now that I look back at most of those interests, I'm glad they turned out the way they did in some ways...of course, there are times I wish otherwise too. MD