lol, on that ladder theory. It does have some truth in it, especially about the alcohol lowering ones standards. Thats why I drink alone, can't wake up with any mistakes laying next to me :P I always joked that if I married a second time it would be for money. Wow Danamo, glad your lady friend wasn't one of his victims. Another thing I have to worry about if I ever date again, it seems a lot of the creeps are smooth talkers. Madmax, best advice is whats already been said here. Vile, I remember 5 yrs ago when my husband first started having doubts about his love for me. I was in a class full of young men, I just shied away from talking to any of them because I knew the only reason they would be interested in me would be for sex. So sad and lonely to realize this but thats human nature. And yes, I'll admit to having a friend's only list in addition to the other list. But lots of laughs when I read about the part where he mentioned physics. It was a physics class I was in with all those guys. Ang