I can answer one part of this at least. "I mean a penis is allowed in a apicture but not the outer shot of female parts?" A flaccid penis is okay, but an erect one isn't. In the same way, a shot of a vulva (other than a legs wide open gyn shot) is okay, but in this particular image the glans clitoris (as opposed to the clitoral hood) was readily visible. To those of us who looked at it, it seemed that the woman was sexually aroused since in the majority of women the glans clitoris is rarely visible except in a state of arousal or inspection. I hope that clears up one point at least. Kev.