Well said, littlefox. The world is populated by a HUGE number of assholes and a certain number of nice people. So ignore the stupid ones and get along with the good ones. The larger the forum (Rosity is huge) the more the rubbish rises to the top and gets noticed/heard. On a small forum like faeriewylde, everybody treats each other decently. That's all there is to it. No, there's one more thing - reacting strongly to the nonsense justifies it. Ignore it and starve it out of existence. It's no fun to agitate if al you get is a big yawn. :] Fish