I'm not sure what happened, but my response to 3D's last message never went through...It was quite lengthy too so I really am not looking forward to having to write it all over again. Anyway, to make a long story short: 3D, seeing that this is indeed a moderated forum, I think you did the right thing and I thank you for it. I think the thing we are all afraid of though, is crossing that ever so thin, increasingly grey and very fuzzy line between wanting dignity and respect for everyone, and the dreaded "C" word. We all want to be treated with respect, but we don't want to end up in a situation like is now typical in todays workforce where one is afraid to compliment a coworker for fear of being fired for sexual harrassment. PC can go too far. Where is the line between common courtesy and extremeism? It's very difficult to see these days.