Err... I think we're getting into "overshare" territory. O_o I've tried repeatedly to get my boyfriend to let me use him for reference photos, but he runs away when I get my camera. He always thinks I have some evil master plan. One thing I've found that occasionally helps in the search for reference photos that aren't porn, is searching for "fine art nudes" or "artistic nudes" online. It might be tough to find male photos, but I know they're out there somewhere. Wish I could help more! -Molly