"in real life if you run your mouth to me without cause just to be ignorant then expect me to retaliate with violence" Violence never solved any problems, and talking about solving your problems in this manner is an issue that many of the people here at Renderosity take offense at. In general we are a peaceful community, albeit, many times we have verbal uprisings that raise the roof, but rarely do people talk about violent retaliation. If you respond to your family in the same manner that has taken place here, then anger management counseling seems to be a good avenue to explore. Too many of the people that frequent this establishment have seen first hand the results of violence, or have friends and family members that have, and it's one of the things that just isn't tolerated no matter how many apologies are provided.