ok, you really want to know this. I work at a library and a coworker got a kick out of the title of a particular book and she knows that I havent' had any dates since my husband left me six months ago so. I decided to read it, its called "A Mind of Its Own" and it deals with some pretty nasty history of a certain male attribute. Anyhow, thats about all I'll say on the matter. :-D