Many reading this thread might indeed be close to deeming me and my opinions evil or callous or whatever. That's great, you know why? Because you have an opinion, and whether you wanted to or not, you've kind of thought about this situation, and that my friends was the whole point. I don't perceive myself as evil in the least, amoral yeah ;-), but not evil. Good and evil are the colours a child sees the world in, I am an adult and there are so many more colours in this wonderful universe. Truth & freedom Gossamyr