Oh I know the e-mails aren't being sent by you, or from your site. I am not sending all those mails that end up as "returned mail" in my inbox either. But the HEADER in those mails leads the various mailer daemons (never quite known what those are) to BELIEVE they come from me, therefore sending the reply back to my account. And that account was even one that did NOT have a *@... But I DID use that adress on Usenet. So I have a pretty good idea of where those bots harvest their crop. I'm sorry to hear of your problems. Unfortunately I don't know enough about it either, so I can't offer you any help, just my sympathy. But with a little luck, you can reopen the domain in a month or so when the tide has calmed.

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