I totally agree with A_. Everyone's vision of "family" and love is different. Not everyone has or ever had the "traditional" Mom, Dad, and the kids thing going on. Whether there is one Mom, one Dad, two Moms, two Dads, or one of each, what difference does it really make if the children are loved and cared for and happy?? UGH. And what the heck does it all have to do with ART??? pdx...here's a great big ((((HUGGGG)))) to you and your family, and I hope you guys had a wonderful Thankdgiving. :) Blessings, Tricia