Hi all, American, Love the freedom but I'm very cynical of the government at the moment (ok always). 41 sexless (at the moment) single (sort of, husband lives with his girlfriend but I'm not divorced [yet]) I do clerk work, two jobs, no social life (hence sexless) Is there such a thing as social status in America? etc etc oh and I live in upstate NY, yeah the other NY. Nice meeting you all.