OK, I'll try to answer a couple of these. 1. The hair - from Koz's Digital babes site or anywhere else - is usually built for one particular model. If you have a hair for the P4 woman, for example, and try putting it on Vicki, it will be out of place. Instead of conforming it, move the hair into position (use the dials in the object properties dialogue, don't try and grab it with the pull tool), scale it if necessary, and then parent it to the figure (Object>Change Parent> and then pick Figure 1>Head or whichever applies.) 2. Poses, again, are generally built for a particular model and don't often work well with others, due to the different way in which their joints are made. Poses for V3, for example, won't work well at all with Posette (the P4 woman), as Posette's not very bendy ;-) For some nice sensual poses, just do a search in the freestuff here on "sexy" - there's a couple of pages worth. Also try Schlabber's great site, Posing Is An Art. He also has some tutorials for posing up there, and a new,in depth tutorial is promised soon. I'll let someone else answer your other questions :)

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