I may be new here and offend, but I've been offended too by this. Politeness and courteousness are not always independent of to the point. New people to this forum or to Renderosity may not know what a header or whatever else is.

Before you jump on me though for that, I also realize that Guitta is not American, so I have to take that into consideration. People from all over the world participate here and that is wonderful! Sometimes words that are coming across as harsh are not meant that way at all. Just a difference in cultures and the way things are said.

I don't think she meant it as being brusque or harsh, it just came across that way.

Do I want to the point in answers? Sure I do, I also hope for patience in those answers too, especially since new people read it. Sometimes, you can have both. I left the moderatorship with another group precisely because one of my fellow moderators couldn't seem to understand that not everyone was experienced with the program and sometimes it was better to be nice and take it slow than to lose people from coming back because of rudeness, even if not meant to be rude.

Just my thoughts for what they are worth.