Ok, here I am. First for the question: 1) I come here to learn, to find out how Poser and Art related to Poser works. 2) I used to come here to see what characters are in the works, but now that's in another forum. Hey, things change, and they always will. I have no opinion on how someone organizes his or her site. (One thing my employers have always commented positive about me is my 'ability to adapt to changes') 3) I enjoy many of the 'cute' posts, ones that arent 'my speed' I just pass by (I'm sure they appeal to someone else so I have no feeling either way - this community is supposed to be for everyone not just "me") Now for my comment in the previous thread: I do apologize if I offended anyone (which apparently I did). The age-old saying "No Whiners Allowed" is simply a very common saying among many athletic groups. My self being rather athletic (skydive, snow ski, surfing, mountain biking, etc) it's just a saying that pops into my mind a lot lately when I see many flame threads aimed at the way someone administers their site or their own affairs. My statement was certainly out of line and I do apologize to anyone who took it personally. Especially now that PheonixRising has posted it's actual meaning I now see it was totally inappropriate. Just another reason I do try Not to post replies in such threads as we are all so different who come here and not all of our beliefs and ways are understood by one another or seen in the same 'light'. Having been 'flamed upon' and ridiculed myself for my spelling, vocabulary, my opinions on matters, my modeling ability (rather lack of), my art ability (or rather lack of) I do know what its like to have someone post negative comments. For this reason alone I should have known Not to click that Post Reply button. I cannot take back what I said (no one can change what has already been done) but I can give my promise that I will refrain from such comments in the future. I am sorry.