I often wonder if the fellows who imagine women should feel flattered by catcalls are the same fellows who are enraged when an othetr man politely expresses interest in them? I have never understood why some men get so enraged by the mere idea of being hit on by "gays", why so many men feel they have to keep gays out of the military in case other men might merely be silently looking at them and doing nothing, yet women are supposed to enjoy the attention of sexual harasment, intimidation or even sexual abuse and be good sports about it. Next time you think about how you would feel about some woman flashing you... think about weather you would feel as good about some dude doing it you... in either case it might be a little presumptuous. On the other hand... it infurates my children to see roofers at work, the men with thier shirts of and the women sweating, they say either "the women should get thier shirts off too or the men should have to wear thiers".