My mother used to tell me as a child.........."if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all". Since 'growing up' I realised the reason for her telling me this, was because, if you can't say something to help, encourage, or cheer, another person in your day to day life then you are being a hinderance to humanity rather than a help. Civility costs nothing, and with a little time and patience, everyone could put their minds to attaining those qualities and making this forum and this world a better place for us all to live in. 8) Just my 0.02p Catlin