Amethyss, the point isn't "what place is better" the issue for me is, this site is just making me confused and frustrated. BTW, I do have my own site (fairly nice imo). With galleries and freebies etc. I was here origianally to get constructive feedback. That has all but been lost. And to keep this frustration out of my "heart" as you say, I choose to walk away for now.. Who knows in a year from now? But for now, at this time..