My prayers and thought are also with you posette, we just went through something similar in November with our grandbaby. My daughter in law was a week from delivery and the baby died, it would have been our first grandson. I hope you have other family to help you get through this tough time. Please know you are in my prayers. God Bless, Sallie.

Poser 9 SR3  and 8 sr3
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Processor Type:  AMD Phenom II 830 Quad-Core
2.80GHz, 4000MHz System Bus, 2MB L2 Cache + 6MB Shared L3 Cache
Hard Drive Size:  1TB
Processor - Clock Speed:  2.8 GHz
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•ATI Radeon HD 4200 integrated graphics 
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