Question for you related to that: Are you using hair you downloaded, and, if so, how long on average does it take to load for you? Is it more than say a couple seconds? If so, then there is a fix for that -- dynamic hair can, and should, load within five seconds at the outside. I will provide MAT files, btw, as well as shaders, and even an explanation of how to apply them :)

thou and I, my friend, can, in the most flunkey world, make, each of us, one non-flunkey, one hero, if we like: that will be two heroes to begin with. (Carlyle)