sigh As someone who's been in this girls place I can assure anyone that it does indeed help to talk about it. Where on this site is a good place? If I have something personal to post or a serious question to ask I would not go to the ot forum here. It's nothing but political crap and a game of one-upmanship.

So what is it? Give us your money but don't tell us about your personal life/pets/kids/etc? Jeez, how difficult is it to skip over a post that's labeled "OT"!

...... Kendra