Momcat, that is what happened before..for a while there were those that if you frequented the PFO then you were a traitor and the same went for over there too...if one good thing has come of this it is that Willow, Grey, Jack and Ed are speaking again...and I am very glad about that. Personal politics should not enter into this. That is not what this is about. Whether to stay or not, frequent both or not is strictly a personal decision and in an ideal world shouldn't make a difference to anyone. I know it will to some but it shouldn't... Hang in there Momcat, it's going to be quite a ride :) If it helps any, here's a HUG for ya!